Frequently Asked Questions

Are all couples welcome?
Absolutely. All couples are welcome — regardless of faith, orientation, or background. Whether you prefer a religious, spiritual, or secular ceremony, I create a space that reflects you two and the love you share.
How much experience do you have?
I bring 10+ years of public speaking and leadership experience to the ceremony space. That background translates into a calm, professional officiating style that keeps your moment stress-free and meaningful.
Where do you serve and what is included?
I'm based in South Elgin, Illinois and serve the greater Chicagoland area. Travel within 50 miles is included in every package. I'm happy to travel farther — we'll quote a simple per-mile rate or flat travel fee.
What does the booking process look like?
Free 15-minute consult to discuss your vision and confirm availability. Proposal + 50% deposit to secure your date. Planning call and collaborative script work (for Custom and Full packages). Final review before the big day. Ceremony day — I arrive early, lead smoothly, and handle license signing and filing.
How long is the ceremony?
Elopements typically run 5–10 minutes. Standard and custom ceremonies average 15–25 minutes. If you have readings, rituals, or family involvement, we can adjust timing.
Can we personalize our ceremony or include traditions/readings?
Yes. You can include cultural or faith traditions, unity rituals, readings, music, and family involvement. I'll help you weave them into a clear, heartfelt script.
Can we write our own vows?
Absolutely — many couples do. I'm happy to edit or format your vows so they read beautifully on the day.
Do you attend rehearsals?
Rehearsals are included in the Full Experience package and available as an add-on for the other packages. They're great for larger wedding parties or complex setups.
What about the marriage license?
I'll guide you through the Illinois process, ensure signatures are correct, and file the completed license within three business days so it's official and stress-free.
What are your payment and cancellation policies?
Deposit: 50% due at booking to reserve your date. Final payment: Day of the ceremony (prior to start) — no personal checks. Cancellations: 30+ days before → full refund, 15–29 days before → 50% of deposit returned, <15 days → deposit non-refundable. I'm happy to accommodate reschedules when possible.
What do you wear?
I'm a man who typically wears a dark suit with dress shirt and tie — professional and unobtrusive. I'm glad to accommodate themes or special requests if you want something unique to your day.
What happens if you're unavailable or something unexpected occurs?
I maintain backup plans and trusted colleagues. If I'm unable to officiate, I'll help secure another qualified officiant or provide a fair resolution.
What if our venue or setup is unconventional?
No problem. Outdoor locations, backyards, courthouses, or themed venues are all welcome. I coordinate with your planner/venue to keep everything smooth and comfortable.